A common point of confusion within broader culture is the difference between sexual orientation and gender identity.
LGBTQ culture has historically valued a certain kind of "gender outlaw" aesthetic—the androgynous rock star, the butch lesbian, the effeminate gay man. However, trans people who seek to live stealth (undetected) or who adhere to binary gender presentations (hyper-feminine trans women, hyper-masculine trans men) often find themselves judged by the same queer community that taught them to question gender roles. This creates a painful irony: a trans woman who wears makeup and a dress might be accused of "reinforcing stereotypes," while a trans man who loves football might be accused of "selling out." shemales cumshots upd