Regulars in the London and international underground know that seeing her requires a six-month vetting process. And yet, hundreds apply. Why? Because she promises something no therapist can guarantee: the death of the weak self.

Ezada's mistress, Sofia, was a woman of poise and intelligence. She had been his rock, his confidante, and his partner in every sense of the word for years. But as Ezada's feelings for Alexa grew, he found himself torn between his loyalty and affection for Sofia and the new, exhilarating connection he felt with Alexa.

The use of specific psychological triggers—ranging from cold indifference to the warm reward of praise—serves to condition the participant. It is a balance of tension and release.